So I think it's about time I give props to my mom, my sister, Sarah and Karla. These are all women who over the past 7 years have encouraged me to leave bad relationships and promised me that someone better was out there waiting for me.
For the past 7 years I've spent time wondering if He would call again? If He was the one? Can this be it? Even with the disappointment? Is He supposed to be this selfish? Is He supposed to smoke this much? Is he supposed to have zero social skills? Is He supposed to be shorter than me?
I spent so much time talking with these women and asking these questions, which had such obvious answers. And they have been extremely patient with me as I went on one bad date after another. Extremely comforting when I would call them crying after realizing that He wasn't the one. Extremely loving as they told me it was going to work itself out.
And what they said was true.
It's funny looking back at all those other men. I just shake my head and laugh to myself, because I gotta be able to have a sense of humor about this. :)
See finally, I'm with someone who loves me for who I am. Even when I'm bossy. Who doesn't question why I am opposed to paying for a sandwich at a restaurant, when I can make a sandwich for free at home. Who thinks about me at the most random times and then does something like buys me herb cheese, cause he knows I like it. Someone who saves me a seat at church but respects my independence enough to introduce me to others as Olivia, so people can see me for more than just his girlfriend. Someone who embraces my love for cooking and has mastered the art of mashed potatoes. Who agrees that we need to take responsibility for this planet and joined the Meat Share Program with me. Someone who knows how much I love to travel so began planning a trip to Greece for us. Someone who doesn't mind seeing me with my Invisilign in. Someone who is genuinely concerned when I say my sister's basement has flooded. And genuinely happy when I tell him my friend got the job in the city. Someone who's family is amazingly wonderful and someone who thinks my family is just as great.
And what's so much more surprising and wonderful...I love him just as much, right back.
So what they said was true. When it's right, it's easy. The joy just pours out effortlessly.